Thursday, November 26, 2009

Miss Murray Hopes to Pay it Forward- Murray Journal

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There’s a new Miss Murray in town and she’s on a mission to stop crime through awareness and kindness. Murray High School graduate Stacey Marie Hansen won the title for 2010 and feels passionately about her platform, crime prevention.

Hansen’s grandfather, Norman Nielsen, was on the city council in his day, and Hansen said she shares his zeal to help make the city a better place.

“Murray is such a community based city,” she said.

Hansen hopes to set up Neighborhood Watches in every district in the city. She plans to go door to door to rally neighbors to create a safer city through community involvement.

Since winning the title, Hansen had been busy attending school functions during Red Ribbon Week, and a Refugee Exhibition at the high school.

She is the youngest of four siblings, grew up in Murray and attended Murray High and McMillian Elementary, where she recently spoke to all the classrooms telling them how important it is to choose good friends.

“I loved it because so many of them couldn’t actually read my sash, but they knew who I was as soon as I walked in--that’s what growing up in Murray does to you,” Hansen said. “You know everyone.”

Pageant director Leesa Lloyd said no one deserved to win more than Hansen. “We’re all so happy for her.”

Hansen won $2,400 for the Miss Murray title, which will help with her tuition at the University of Utah where she is majoring in business/entrepreneurship.

She believes crime and hatred can be fought with the “pay it forward” idealism. She plans to start a paper chain of random acts of kindness. Then her idea is to join all of these chains from the schools and city hall together for the Arts Festival in early May. She also plays to pass out kindness cards, where when you do a kind act for someone you give them the card.

“Kindness has a ripple effect,” Hansen said. “I know it seems like an impossible task to get rid of it all [crime], but if we can change one person’s life for the better then this has all been worth it.”

Murray Journal October

Stacey-Marie Hansen Crowned Miss Murray!
Erin McShay





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On Sept. 12, 12 talented young women competed in the city’s annual Miss Murray pageant, though only one lucky individual got to take home the crown. Murray High School graduate Stacey Marie Hansen won the title for 2010. Hansen competed in the pageant the previous two years.

“It’s been her third year in the program and she really deserved to win,” said Leesa Lloyd, pageant director. “We are all so happy for her.”

The contest was open to young women living in Murray between the ages of 17 to 24 years old. The contestants were judged 30 percent on their talent, 35 percent on their interview skills, 15 percent on evening wear, 15 percent on swim suit wear, and 5 percent for their on stage question. After totallingall of their scores, the judges rank their top five in order.

Lloyd, a dance teacher at Murray High School, has directed the pageant for the past 14 years. She said the judges looked for service-oriented young women who hope to pursue an education after high school.

Murray City gave the pageant $4,100 for scholarship winners. Hansen won $2,400 for Miss Murray. The first runner, Kaitlin Pollei, was awarded $800; second runner up Shannon Ma won $600, third runner up Marion Stobell won $400, and fourth runner up Mallory Rogers won $200.

The pageant included a Little Miss Murray contest with girls between the ages of 7-9. The winner, Mykenzy Ford, drew a picture of why Murray is the greatest city in America.

Also on the night of the event, the pageant director announced a surprise Woman of Achievement award winner in Murray. This year’s award went to Rhea Kiisel, a previous Murray pageant director. Kiisel was responsible for starting up the pageant in the 1970’s. Kiisel went on to direct the state’s Miss Utah pageant.

Miss Murray’s duties are to ride in all the parades, get involved with the Murray Chamber, and implement a platform she feels passionate about.

The former Miss Murray, Cari Southwick, worked for organ and tissue donor awareness. Southwick highly recommends other young women get involved with pageants.

“It’s definitely changed my life,” Southwick said. “I’ve learned so much; it’s made me the woman I am today.”

Southwick now plans to continue working towards her social work degree at the Salt Lake Community College and to marry her fiancée in February.

Murray Journal August

Contestants Gearing up for Miss Murray Pageant
Erin McShay
August 2009





All summer long, 13 young women have been hard at work rehearsing for the Miss Murray Pageant, which will take place on Sept. 12 in the Murray High School auditorium. The ladies have been practicing their acts for the talent competition, the main number and brushing up on current events as they will be interviewed by judges and asked an on stage question on current affairs.

“It’s been really fun,” said contestant Amanda Airment. “I really wanted to do this because Murray is such a great community, and I want to be a part of it as much as possible.”

The contest is open to women between the ages of 17 to 24 and the only condition is that participants must reside in Murray.

The Miss Murray Pageant is part of the Miss America organization, which pageant director Leesa Lloyd has been involved with for over 35 years. Lloyd, a dance and sociology teacher at the Murray High School, got involved with the pageant scene because her mother Sandra Lloyd was the pageant director for the Miss Riverton contest for over 17 years. Leesa Lloyd choreographed the pageant in Riverton and then moved over to Murray’s in 1995.

“It’s really great to see the girls grow and develop,” said Lloyd. “More often than not the girls come out of the pageant saying what a great experience it was.”

The girls will be judged 30 percent on their talent, 35 percent on their interview skills, 15 percent on evening wear, 15 percent on swim suit wear, and 5 percent for their on stage question. After totalling all their numbers, the judges rank their top five in order.

Most young women are encouraged to enter because of the scholarships awarded to the winners. Miss Murray receives $2,600, first runner up receives $800, second place $600, third place $400, fourth place $200 and Miss Congeniality receives $100. The pageant received $4,100 from Murray City.

“We really have a great relationship with the city,” Lloyd said. “Mayor Dan Snarr has been tremendous and the council has been very supportive.”

The pageant will include a Little Miss Murray contest where girls ages 7-9 compete by drawing a picture of why Murray is the greatest city in America. A woman’s achievement award will also be presented to a woman who has contributed to the Murray community.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Miss Utah Workshop!


Whit Sandwich!
Whitnee Wright (Miss Intermountain) Me, Whitney Merrifield (Miss Utah!)
You ladies are absolutely stunning AND amazing!

My first Miss Utah workshop was Saturday! It was simply amazing! I am so blessed to be able to work with the most amazing girls and women in the state of Utah! The directors, committee members, and queens were all so amazing and I'm so excited for Miss Utah!

I couldn't sleep the night before! It was better than Christmas! I was just so excited to meet everyone!!!


Jessica Hudgins AKA Miss Legacy AKA Most amazing best friend ever!


Marissa, Miss Utah's Outstanding Teen! She is not only a cutie, but so driven and passionate! I love her!


I have the best director in the world! You go Miss Lloyd!

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Keys to Success!

I gave a presentation at the Boys and Girls Club on succeeding in school and scholarships and such and figured I'd share it with all of you! Here you are!

Miss Murray’s Guide to
Succeeding in School

Be There! Set Goals!
o Being there physically will help you loads, but I mean being there both physically and mentally. Figure out why you are there, set goals, and reach those goals. “Whether you fail or whether you succeed, the amount of effort is the same.”
Take a Balanced Schedule- at School and at Home
o School, work, friends, family, and extracurricular activities are hard to balance! Don’t let one rule out everything else. (Think Aristotle’s Doctrine of the Mean and Body Building)
Get a High GPA
o Many scholarships and admittances will be based solely on your GPA and ACT. Don’t mess up your ACT; however, if it’s low and you raise it higher, scholarships committees would eat that up.
Find the School and Scholarship that fits YOU
o Don’t go to the school someone else wants you to go to. You’ll end up transferring. When looking for scholarships, fastweb and those sites are helpful, but the best scholarships you guys can received are directly from Murray High in the counseling center. There is a scholarship and a school out there for everyone.
Create a Portfolio
o If you make an in-depth portfolio-with pictures, explanations, the whole works- life will be so much easier for you when you start applying for scholarships. You could split it up into Academic, Service, Leadership, Extra-Curricular activities, or whatever works best for you. Just know how amazing you are and be ready to tell anyone else. Applying for scholarships isn’t bragging, it’s getting what you deserve ;)
Take Every Opportunity You Hear of
o If you’re at a dance audition in the Salt Lake Valley, chances are you’ll see me there! Don’t just let things happen to you, make them happen!
Be Loud!
o The squeaky wheel doesn’t only get the grease, it gets the scholarship too! Find those people who can help you and make sure they do. Even if you think you’re being annoying, they will appreciate your persistence.
Be Involved!
o There are many situations where instead of looking at GPA and ACT, scholarship committees will be looking at your extracurricular activities. There are so many clubs and teams in your school that it should be easy for you to get involved. Bring your friends along too.
Serve Others!
o Service is an easy way to make your resume stand out, but the best part about it is what it does to you. Remember “Service is like peeing your pants, everyone can see it, but only you can feel the warmth.” careless

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Don Blair Inducted to Murray Mayor's Hall of Fame

This was a fun event! I never knew how amazing Don Blair was! I'm so proud he was in Murray! I also have to give shout out to everyone who helped, including one of my very best friends in the whole world, Celeste! I love all of you who helped out and who help make Murray a better city and this world a better place to live in!






City Council Presentation




I finally got to present my platform to the city council! It was awesome being surrounded by people I love who support me in what I do! Murray City is SO supportive of the Miss Murray program! Thank you so much!
I even got a little teary eyed when I got up there... It's what I've always wanted! It was just amazing!

The best part was having my grandpa there... If you read about it in the Newspaper, he's actually a huge reason of why I wanted to be Miss Murray so badly. He told me I can change the world and I believed him. I still believe him, I'm doing it right now! He's so proud of me. And that means more to me than about anything! My cousins all played sports and were really really good at what they did. He always bragged about them so much! I just want to be someone he can brag about! And now I know he is! It makes me so happy! I LOVE to make my "grumps" proud!




Boys and Girls Club Princess Party




This was the 1st of 3 visits to the Boys and Girls Club this week! It was so much fun!
We had a "Princess Party!"

I did the girls' hair...



and they did my nails!



We also had a "walk off" and I told them about being Miss Murray!
It was super short, but still super sweet!

The little boy was my favorite! He thinks I'm Cinderella!
It was so much fun walking into the Boys and Girls Club and being an instant celebrity! They just all ran up to me and gave me love and hugs and I surely enjoyed life! I love kids! I really don't think they understand how much potential they have!


Saturday, November 14, 2009

Jr Miss



Jr Miss 2008

Jr Miss 2009

Jr Miss 2010


This week I got to help with another Jr Miss Program and it was so much fun! It was fun because it was the Jr Miss program I won, and I helped with it last year too so it was 3 generations of Jr Misses that I've personally been able to work with! Tacie, a finalist with me was there, the two girls we sent to state, and now the new girls. awesome awesome awesome.
I usually don't get super close to the girls, but I felt especially connected to a few of them this time and it made it so much better! I know I made some long-time friends this week. I love to work with the Jr Miss Program because I get to work with the most amazing girls in the state!



"Will Work for Food"

So, I'm kind of hesitant to even post this on this blog because it's quite personal, but here you go! This is the real me.

Today on my way to help with a Junior Miss program, I passed a man standing out on 12300 S holding a sign that read "will work for food"

That's when I lost it.

I just started bawling. I was a total emotional wreck.

I'm sure you're wondering why?... I see panhandlers every day of my life, especially when I visit the downtown area. But this man was different. He wasn't just asking for me to hand him money. He would work for anyone just to get food. I have a problem just giving anyone out on the street money, but I love to give them food... and the fact he was willing to work for it. I just was so torn because this man really needed help, and was willing to work for what he got. He wasn't asking for a hand out. He wanted to earn his keep. I have so much respect for him, and at the same time I'm so incredibly sad for him...

That's when I took a look at my day's activities. I went shopping to a bunch of different stores, spent way too much money, and was a silly little brat. I don't NEED those clothes, that man NEEDS food. He needs a job, he needs to support his family if he has one... And I just spent a large portion of my day shopping.

It's incredible when we have these reality checks.


I also found this picture today on the internet. It was a staged picture, but we need to realize that this unemployment rate is getting out of hand. We can't magically create thousands of jobs, but we can help those around us. This is hitting us all hard, especially now during the Christmas season. I have several family members who have been out of work for months, and they're very well educated, smart, personable people. It just hurts my heart. Literally.

Don't worry, I got him some food. He was very grateful. That made me happy, but at the same time I was still so depressed because I know there's so many people like him. I can't feed them all. Not by myself. I kept stressing about this the entire night. I was even really emotional when I was helping with Jr Miss, eventually I whipped back into shape and was ready to work without spilling tears all over everything, but this was just a huge eye opener for me.

This is why I'm Miss Murray. I know I can't make the world 100% perfect, but I can change it for the better.

Please help me.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Veteran's Day Parade


Yesterday was Veteran's Day
Did you even notice?
Some banks got work off, but for most of us it was just a regular day. I hate that. These men and women have given their time and lives so that we don't have to and we just go on with life like nothing on their special day.
Ok, so that sounds a bit pessimistic, but i just have so much respect for them. They're incredible! selfless! brave! amazing!
I had the opportunity to be in the veteran's day parade which was so much fun! I rode with the mayor on his super sweet motorcycle! After that, we had a ceremony where some politicians and veterans spoke.
Jason Chaffetz said that people only join the armed forces because of how they feel veterans have been treated. I hope they all know how much respect we all have for them and how grateful we are so that more people can continue to protect us. I'm so proud that both of my grandpa's served in the army. They are such great men and I know they learned a lot through their service. I'm so glad that veterans' get so many perks (discounts at stores and restaurants) they totally deserve it. I'm so proud every time I see someone in uniform.

These are my 1st and 2nd attendants- Kaitlin Pollei and Shannon Ma. They are the most beautiful, wonderful girls in the world and I'm SO happy I get to spend so much time with them!




Bob Bennet!
We may not all agree with the war, but we can and must support our troops.
Thank you to all of you who keep us save! We owe you big time! We love you!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Rachel's Challenge


I am officially on a war against crime, drugs and hatred. I decided this at the Rachel’s challenge assembly at Murray High School. This was definitely the climax of my whole week. How simply amazing everything about this was. So here’s the story behind it all.
On April 20, 1999 the worst high school shooting to ever occur happened. Columbine high school in Littleton, Colorado was the site where two young boys shot and killed 13 people and injured 21 others before turning their weapons on themselves and committing suicide. One of those people killed was 17-year-old Rachel Scott.
Rachel was an incredible young woman. Her standards, morals, values, and actions were different than many of her peers because of her faith in a higher power. Her faith in God made her a better person. Now I’m not here to push my or any other person’s beliefs on others, but the point is she lived a higher life because she knew she was here for a higher purpose. So whether you believe in God or not, I hope that you will see the good in living for the good.
A month before Rachel’s death, she wrote an essay called “My ethics, my codes of life.” In this paper, she said “I have this theory that if one person will go out of their way to show compassion, it will start a chain reaction of the same. People never know how far a little kindness can go.” Rachel’s entire life was filled with kindness, love, and compassion for everyone around her. Rachel Scott reached out to others and lifted them up. She was the girl that was nice to the new kid, stood up against bullies, and invited others to her lunch table to eat. Rachel was a shining example to her school and now the entire world of how we should all treat each other.
Now that Rachel’s body is gone from us, her spirit and family have carried on her message. They have started a program called Rachel’s Challenge. Her family and friends come to schools around the nation and tell her story. They invite us to take these 5 challenges:

1) Eliminate Prejudice and Hate
Look for the best in others
Give at least 3 chances before you make a judgment call on someone- you never know what someone is going through
If you want to look for the best in people, you can find it. The worst is there too. All you have to do is decide what you want to see
2) Dare to Dream
Keep a journal
Write down your goals
3) Choose positive influences
What we feed our mind is what we become
Those teens who killed and hurt so many in Columbine’s biggest influence was Adolf Hitler. Rachel’s was Anne Frank.
Give special attention to the disabled, the new, and the picked on or put down kids
4) Kind words and little acts of kindness show huge results
You never know how a smile or a kind action can change someone’s day
5) Start a chain reaction
This is where I disagree with Rachel. We can see exactly how far a little kindness can go, and I plan to prove it. With our paper chain, kindness cards, and hero cards, we will see how far kindness can go.

Now my plan with Rachel’s challenge
1) Make a literal chain reaction. Murray city is going to make a literal chain of kindness. I will be giving paper to all of the school and all of the residents. They will do acts of kindness and then turn those papers in to their nearby school or even to city hall where we will create a huge chain. We will link all of these chains together for the Arts Fest in early May so we can see exactly how far our idea has gone.
2) Kindness Cards. These cards will start in Murray and I hope they spread through the country. Do a kind act for someone else and give them the card. Sign your name on the back before you give it to them, then they will do the same. Once you’ve done your kind act, come to my blogspot and comment on my post with your feelings with what happened and where you’re from. I hope that we’ll be getting comments from Murray residents, then people outside of Murray, then people outside of Utah, and even people outside of the U.S. That, my friends, is the goal!
3) Hero Cards. This is basically the same principle as the kindness cards; however, it’s a thank you card for kind things other people have done. This is a way to thank those who never get enough gratitude for what they do every day (ie the lunch ladies, cops, your parents!) When you let people know they are appreciated, they are more likely to do an even better job the next time. Plus, it will make them happy!

So Murray City, please join me on my war against crime, drugs, and hatred. I know it seems like an impossible task to get rid of it all, but if we can change one person’s life for the better then this has all been worth it.



A little PS on all of this, I can’t believe how big of a difference this made in the high school in one day. During the assembly, students were invited up to the stage to tell their feelings on the subject. Oh my goodness it was incredible how the HIGH SCHOOL TEENS opened up! There were so many stories about how a little kindness can go so far. So many kids wanted to talk about it, that he had to cut the line short. What an amazing experience! They’ve now started a Friends of Rachel or “FOR” club to really put these challenges into action! You go Murray High! Thanks especially to the PLT and Ms. Waite for all of your help!

Elementary Red Ribbon Week Assembly

Ah this was so much fun! There are few better feelings than walking in to a room full of young kids who absolutely adore you. Obviously, they don’t know me I can’t take credit for being some amazing person that they just love because they know me, but they know who Miss Murray is when she walks in with her crown and sash. It was awesome! I stood in front of them before the assembly began and they cheered for me *Miss Murray Miss Murray* I felt like a rock star!

These girls were way too cute! They ran to me as soon as they walked in the room!
However, this is not why I loved this assembly so much. I loved this assembly because it was good for the kids. Steve James has written some songs that have good meanings to them, (ie I love being me, doing drugs is bad) and our district’s music teacher has gone around to all of the elementaries and taught them the songs. Each grade got to pick their song. They performed it in the day-time assembly for each other. Then there was another assembly for their parents that night. Every elementary school in our district is doing this.
This was an awesome program for a few reasons. First, the songs taught them good values and ethics. These songs get stuck in their head and hopefully they start believing it and acting on it (no we’re not brainwashing the kids, we’re teaching them to have high self esteem and not do drugs, this is good people haha) Second, what the songs taught is actually part of the state core curriculum. I don’t know how, that’s just what was said in the assembly. Third, the kids got to experience the wonder or performing- something I’ve always loved. Fourth, the kids got to watch each other sing; they got to enjoy the art of singing. There’s just so much good that came with this program!
I loved listening to so many kids sing about good values. It gave me so much hope for the future- because the children really are the future. And I want to help them make the future bright.

Me and Officer Huber with his choice car!

PS I have to send another shout out to Marianne Kirk for getting this program into our school and realizing how important this program is. I also have to give a thank you to Steve James for being simply amazing because he does this program in way more than Murray district and he’s doing so much good! You go guy!



Me and the 6th grade!

Faces of Refugees Exhibit





I had the opportunity to take a few classes of Junior High students through the Refugee Exhibit in the Murray High library. The exhibit was pictures of refugees here in the United States and their stories. I think that these people have been misunderstood. Refugees are not immigrants. They have been forced to leave their countries. They look exactly the same as you or I.
Going through the exhibit just made me, as cheesy as it sounds, proud to be an American. People are fleeing from their countries to our country! People come here to escape the problems of other countries. And we accept them… Or do we? This opened my eyes a lot. It made me realize that I need to be more kind to those who aren’t the same as me, I have no idea why they’re here and not in their own countries. And I should treat all people this way. I don’t know everyone's background, so I’ve learned to always give them the benefit of the doubt. I think this is what keeps me happy in life. Even when someone cuts me off while I’m driving- I just have to figure they’re probably just having a bad day. It’s nothing against me, just a bad day on their part.
This also just makes me grateful for my parents, my family, and my upbringing. I realized the other day when I was simply cutting fruit that I do it that particular way because my parents did. Others cut their fruit differently probably because their parents do. Some people get their hygiene habits, study habits, or thoughts on education from their parents. It’s important for us to each learn and grow on our own, but sometimes we can’t blame others when they just haven’t been taught certain things (for instance that you should probably shower every day ;D)


PS I have to give a shout out to Marianne Kirk for being so wonderfully amazing to bring this exhibit to us! And thanks to Melia Fidel to let us have it in herlibrary and for just being the most amazing teacher/ second mother to so many students, especially me :D

Red Ribbon Week!



Rachel’s Challenge
Elementary Assembly
Faces Refugees

Red Ribbon Week was such an amazing week for me!
Monday I went to school, went hiking, and had a fun time at work.

Tuesday I had my meeting with Miss Lloyd and talked tons about Miss Utah. I’m so excited!

Wednesday was when the fun began! I was able to be a special guest at the PTA/Administrative meeting at the district. I got to meet/revisit the administration from the different schools and I also got to meet all the PTA presidents! It was fun to see all those I was able to work with in the past through student government! Being with Ms Covington and Mr Dunn totally reminded me of 9th grade being Student Body President and working with them every day! So much fun! I also loved seeing all the PTA presidents! I want to be a cute mommy like them some day! (No worries, in a very long time :D)
After the meeting, the PTA President from Hillcrest told me to swing by for their lunch activities. It was way fun and I was there for pretty much the rest of the day. I got to go into the lunch room and gather people for the activities! The kids were so fun and so kind! They called to me across the room “Hi Miss Murray!” I love the fact that they feel like they can just come to me and say hi. I want to be personable and let them know I think they’re fabulous and I love them! Ha, it also never surprises me how much boys will always be boys. “Hey Miss Murray, did you know I’m Mr. Murray?” Oh boy!

Thursday I was at the high school pretty much all day. I was there for the 4 different Rachel’s Challenge assemblies- I’ll talk more about those in another post. So there were 3 in the morning, then I went to McMillan to talk to all the kids, then back to the high school! What a crazy day! Going to McMillan was so much fun because that’s actually where I went to elementary! I got to go to each classroom and tell them how important choosing good friends was! I loved it because so many of them couldn’t actually read my sash, but they knew who I was as soon as I walked in- that’s what growing up in Murray does to you. You know everyone! :D

Friday was another busy day! That morning I went to the Faces of Refugees exhibit and walked some junior high kids through the exhibit. Then I had to go straight from there to the afternoon assembly at Longview elementary where I got to see my little Miss! Both of those were so fun and I am writing blogs on each of those to explain them more too!

Overall, Red Ribbon week was super busy, but super fun! I told my mom I don’t need to go on a Miss Utah diet when I’m Miss Murray because I don’t have any time to eat! Thank you to everyone who helped out with Red Ribbon Week! It’s a lot of worth, but even if it keeps one kid from going down that scary path, it was totally worth it!